Let’s talk about family formals—the part of the wedding day that’s often the least favorite. And truly, can you blame anyone? I sure can't.
Picture this: an absolute stranger to your family (me, with a camera) shouting names, herding everyone into place, and coaxing reluctant family members out from behind the nearest tree. It’s like a rushed production line, and you, the newlyweds, are just a brief stop on the way to cocktails and dinner. But wait—this is your FAMILY we’re talking about.
These are the people who have been there with you through thick and thin, cheering you on, lifting you up, and loving you unconditionally. They’ve witnessed your journey to this moment, and now they’re here, celebrating with you after you’ve exchanged vows of forever. So why should taking these important family photos feel like a chore?
After photographing over a hundred weddings, and hearing, "let's get this over with" before even starting family formals, I’m here to offer an alternative approach that'll enhance everyone's experience- especially yours.
Imagine this: instead of making your loved ones endure the Texas heat, or any weather (but that one's the worst), without any refreshments while other guests prance off to cocktail hour, what if we gave your immediate and extended family their own special cocktail hour? They get to relax, enjoy some bubbly, and catch up with each other in a stress-free environment. Your officiant would simply excuse all non-family guests to cocktail hour while the immediate and extended family stayed back for passed drinks and hors d'oeuvres. They wouldn't even think about sneaking away (after being instructed not to) to snag a cocktail while the two of you took a moment to freak out over your new and improved left hands.
And when you're ready to join your family for pictures? Imagine actually getting to mingle with your family, champagne in hand, soaking in the love and congratulations. I'll be getting those love-filled candids that you'll cherish even more as time passes, then, when you're done chatting with any given group, I'll get a photo of you gathered together before you move on to the open arms of your next family group. No more tired feet from standing too long in one place and forcing a smile —just genuine joy and cherished moments effortlessly documented.
This approach not only enhances the guest experience but also ensures your family photos are filled with genuine warmth and celebration. You’ll have candid shots of hugs and laughter, alongside those classic group portraits where everyone’s smiling from the heart because they’re genuinely enjoying the moment with you.
Your wedding day is about creating memories that reflect who you are and the love you share. Your wedding day will go by so quickly. Let’s make every moment count, starting with your family formals.
